Even if he isn’t trying to have sex with you, he is thinking about it.
April 23rd, 2008 by Sarah Morrison
I love When Harry met Sally. It’s probably one of my favorite movies ever. I was re-watching the other day and began to sorta think about the dilemma at hand. “Can men and women be friends?” Typing this feels awkwardly Sex and the City. Like you prolly picture me lying on my bed in a cute pair of panties and a tank top pondering this question, while smoking cigarettes, with a voice over coming out of my computer speakers. Replace voice over with Law and Order, underwear with a bikini bottom, and that’s basically it. I need to do laundry badly. I hate doing laundry. In case you haven’t the movie in a while…
The female perspective is convinced they can be friends with males.
From the male perspective: men don’t have female friends. They want to do any women they chose to spend time with. In review: even if he isn’t trying to have sex with you he is thinking about it.
Discuss
true story.
the end.
That’s not completely true. If this friend is a horrendous monster of a girl, I wouldn’t think about having sex with her. I MIGHT however ask her to help me change the oil in my car.
I believe it to be true. Every guy i’ve ever tried to “just be friends” with has returned the favor by trying to get me to bone him.
If we do the dirty he has no problem being “just friends” with me, especially since I’m emotionally attached now.
Weird.
it’s a fact men think about having sex with anything that has two legs probably every 2 seconds. But it’s just nature, and women either can act on it or not. Being a woman is awesome. We get offered the dick all day. lol
I don’t know girls. My best friend is a guy, I’ve known him for over 10 years & the closest we ever came to hooking up was him asking me to dance in the 10th grade. He’s got a girlfriend who I love to death. Wow, is it really that uncommon? Hmm…
I have lots and lots of guy friends! Unfortunately, I’ve slept with most of them already. There are like 5 I haven’t though. And they are way mad about it. What’s with guys thinking that if we are sexually active,we should automatically want to sleep with them? My best guy friend knows how crazy I am. That helps.
I’m with you on that Olivia, I too have slept with most of my guy friends and the few that I didn’t fornicate with are slightly bitter. And you know what I just realized, lol, they call me less.
I think guy friends are our in case of emergency. Yeah we can be friends but if I’m ever in need of some safety dick I breaking that glass. Men and women can be friends but guys will always want to hit it!
chances are, the two of you became friends in the first place because he wanted your shit. unless you’re a leper and he works for doctors without borders- you’re entire arrangement was about sex at one point in time.
Ah, you got me there. He most probably had a lil 14 year old crush. I am no leper after all…
YEP - every single guy pal i’ve made has wanted it - i don’t care unless they decide we can’t be friends anymore when i don’t want them back (compli-cated - yar).
A guy and a girl CAN be friends if there is ZERO physical attraction between the 2. I have a handful of pretty cool guy friends, one that is REALLY close to me, but I make sure to keep my physical relationships with guys to just that. Fuck and run. Or date and fuck. Why shit where you eat, ya digg?
“My best guy friend knows how crazy I am. That helps.
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I was also gonna say this. My best guy friend is crazy and I am too, we know all of each other’s dirty site and plus he has REALLY bad taste in chicks (not my problem, I’ve tried to help him, but he insists on dating these Paris Hilton look-alikes, it’s gross, needless to say, he doesn’t see me for a couple months when he goes out with these things.)
oh, yeah, and i hate doing laundry too.
so much so that i leave it for a month and have to wear my back-up bikin bottoms (not even my regular ones, but the old-school threads relagated to the back of the drawer for super-lazy-days). don’t feel bad, at least you’re trying to wear clean clothes.
As they get older, they smarten up and give up as soon as they figure out they don’t have a shot.